The road of life is never a straight one. When a few moments fall or fall, when you cry and laugh, when you feel sad, when you believe in your own instincts and frustrations, you always think of feelings as illusions, and these illusions will make People fall into the whirlpool of life. If you do not see through it, you may endanger your life. The following 50 people are born with the illusion, it is worth to see!
1. Individuals can only be changed by reality
If you become strong enough, others cannot refuse you; if you can order yourself, difficulties cannot hinder you… as long as you first change yourself, you can change your world and change your life.
2. Why it's always me
There are no talented people in the world. Only those who do not know how to promote themselves are the ones who are not good enough; they are not good enough and they are not working hard enough.
3, all things will help each other, will easily succeed
On the road of life, everything has to rely on oneself – relying on one's own understanding, relying on one's own will and relying on one's own pursuit…. Life is a one-way ticket, and one goes without return. All we can do is work hard and we can rely on it. Only own.
4, do anything, give yourself more to stay good
Giving yourself a cliff with no retreat is an opportunity to assault yourself to the high grounds of life and give yourself an outstanding ticket.
5, versatile and demanding all-round development
In today's big explosion of knowledge, no one can become a full-fledged talent for knowledge, but can only become an expert who masters a certain aspect of knowledge or a certain skill. Therefore, in real life, multi-talented people are often unable to match a single specialist.
6, bad boy who is not obedient, hard to become a big device
There is no perfect person or thing in the world. When a child who has never made a mistake grows up, he or he becomes a mediocre person, or he will make a big mistake sooner or later. Therefore, we should moderately reduce our expectations and requirements for children, encourage them to truly face their own shortcomings and mistakes, and encourage them to try not to make mistakes, pay attention to the experience and gains of the process, and take off the mask of “good children”.
7, everything can not think of it too simple
Avenue to Jane! Classics are simple, truth is simple, and the most useful things are simpler things. Complexity causes waste, and effectiveness comes from simplicity. Finding the key parts and removing excesses is not as complicated as success.
8, anything, we must break the sand in the end
There are some things you have to figure out that you might be exhausted and the results are often not as you might think. Therefore, there is no need for anything to break the casserole in the end.
9, physiological defects, let me self-defeating
What's wrong? Small rotten can make oranges sweeter, small faults can make men more lovable, and happily make beauty's face more charming. Some defects are gifts that God has given you. Treat them kindly. You will have unexpected gains.
10. There is no report of hatred, non-gentleman
The ancients said that "people who are not tolerant of anger are better than brave ones" and that those who cultivate oneself are better than those who attack the city. In life, tolerance can reduce the gap between people, allowing everyone to communicate better and be more considerate and caring.
11. Why is it always my failure?
Grindstone is a friend of sharp knives, prairie is a friend of horses, obstacles are friends of the will, difficulties are friends of victory. Fate is not doomed by nature, fate depends on the degree of human struggle, and is determined by the person himself.
12, can not lie
The Summer Treasurer in the “Guan Guan Dong” said: “No one wants to deal with people who are always hypocritical and sleek, but blindly honest, but it is also easy to hurt people. Therefore, businessmen pay attention to great honesty, that is, when appropriate, For proper people, say appropriate words." It can be seen that the opportunity for everyone to tell the truth is actually very small. If frankness is a kind of injury, then please choose the wit's "lie."
13, Shen Yu yesterday's regret, difficult to extricate themselves
To be a happy and successful person, the most important thing is to remember to close the door behind you, learn to forget about mistakes and mistakes in the past, do not indulge in trouble, regret, and always look forward; the time will not go To return, tomorrow is another day. Do not make past mistakes and mistakes become tomorrow's burden.
14. The day of poverty is bound to be changed
Poverty is not terrible. What is terrible is the lack of a spirit of self-reliance. Poverty is not terrible. It is terrible to retreat in distress or to be mediocre and poor and lead to lasting poverty. The compromise of poverty in the will will lead to behavioral abandonment of poverty and eventually poverty will be accompanied by a lifetime.
15, eat hard bitter, square for people
The modern people summarize the major elements of success: correct thinking, unremitting action, great character, skillful skills, god-given opportunities, and valuable health. Obviously, if you want to succeed, you must not only eat hardships but also support the relevant conditions. Those who know the hardships, those who have not eaten the hardships, and those who take hardships as a magic weapon to solve all problems People, I am afraid, can only continue to linger in the "bitter bitter" circle.
16, each person should be born to do great things
The sea does not choose a trickle, so it can be big: if the mountain does not reject the fine soil, it can only be high. The work we are doing now may be too plain and perhaps trivial. But this is work, life, and an indispensable foundation for accomplishing personnel. For the professional, it is not easy to simply do anything small.
17, some time, do not have to rush
The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop. The only thing that is constant in this world is change. Anything you do when you think of it will be done. Never wait and procrastinate. Nobody in the world can walk again. Today, though not the best, it is a place where you can work hard. Time is changing, the key lies in grasping the moment
18, the problem is coming, learning how to bury the head of an ostrich into the sand
In the face of problems and difficulties, some people learn ostriches and bury their heads in the sand. Others learn to face the tigers. However, in real life, most people are the former, while the latter is not the same as the morning star. Life will inevitably fall to a low point. At this time, you must dare to stand up and act as a source of influence for all people. Only in this way can you seize the opportunity and come to the fore.
19, do a lot of things at the same time, spread the energy
Goethe said: "A man cannot ride two horses, and when he rides on this horse, he will lose the one. The wise man will set aside all the distractions." The human life and energy are limited, we must learn to focus on the condenser. , Exclude all interference from trivial matters, focus all information, energy, enthusiasm and lock your goal, so that you do not want to succeed is difficult.
20. Never take dreams as a thing
Humans are magical because of their dreams, but have you discovered that your dreams have drifted away from you as you age, until you finally disappear. At this time, you confirmed that your dream had been stolen, and you did not have the courage and ability to recover.
21, neglecting the change of personal bad habits
The ancients said: "Lesser than natural, habits are like nature." Bad habits are the locks we cannot open; bad habits are the corners we can't turn; bad habits are barriers we can't see… Good habits to keep, bad Habits to correct, never let bad habits affect our future.
22, afraid to make mistakes and refuse to try
No one likes to make mistakes, but some people say: Making mistakes is the best way to learn. The so-called “eat a meal, grow up with wisdom” is the same truth. If we can look at the mistakes we have made from another perspective, it may not be a good thing. Because we can learn from mistakes and drive us forward.
23. Blind adherence
Moderate renunciation is open-mindedness, self-confidence, and self-surpassing. It is a relief to give yourself a heavy weight. There is no absolute desperation in life. When there is no way to go, calm yourself and give up. A new hope will be revealed before your eyes.
24. Being a Person, Being Excessive in Publicity
The ancients had a cloud: "The sea never leaves its water, so its grandeur is great." The reason why the sea can accommodate thousands of rivers and rivers is because it always puts its position at the lowest level, so it has become broad and profound. The same is true of people. We should always put our position low and adopt a modest attitude. Only in this way can we draw on people’s merits in order to establish good karma.
25. Lack of courage to start from scratch
Failure is not terrible. It is terrible that I do not know why. Being good at summing up the lessons of failure, analyzing the causes of failure, and gaining valuable experience, failure can become wealth that is more precious than money, and it is the new starting point and success.
26, follow the masses, absolutely not wrong
Be your own master, have your own thoughts, control your own words and deeds, cherish your own emotions… because you have mastered yourself, you can understand yourself more deeply. Since I accepted myself, I liked myself more and presented my best side.
27. Just keep the status quo on the line of life
"If heaven is to descend upon the Sri Lankan people, we must first endure their ambitions, work hard, and hungry on their skin…" This is in fact telling us to stay away from the comfort trap and to keep ourselves in a state of "uncomfortableness". Only great things can be done.
28. Never make fools who are jokes
A person can only learn to skate when he passes through a tumultuous stage that makes himself like an idiot. Indeed, in any matter, he can only make progress if he bravely learns to be a fool himself (Shawner).
29, too close in interpersonal communication
Intimate, wonderful is wonderful in the beauty of distance. Moon in the water, see the flowers in the fog, view the beauty from the curtain, and explore treasures in the deep mountains. All the fascinating charm is not the magical distance effect. Maintaining the distance sometimes gives people hope and confidence, and feels a faint warmth and fragrance.
30. The mountain will not come, I will not pass
When the difficult “big mountain” does not take the initiative to move, we should take the initiative to approach them in the face of difficulties. Instead of waiting for a rally, it is better to take advantage of it. When we cannot bring the mountains closer to us, the best way we can take is to take the initiative to approach the mountains.
31. The words of others are always correct
Some people's comments may make you sad, but don't forget the phrase "I'm naturally born to be useful." However, if you are superstitious about others, do not measure your own value with the goals of others. Learn to accept yourself, do not underestimate yourself, and always believe that one day you will have your own stage.
32. The eye can see absolutely nothing wrong
Tagore said: "We have misread the world and we say that the world has deceived us." This world is not operating in the reciprocal way you imagined. The reason we see the world wrong is that the root cause is not the illusion of life, but because our intuition deceives ourselves.
33. Excessive accusations against others without self-examination
It is always easier for people to see problems outside than to see their own internal problems. It is easier to blame others than to review them. As a result, cynics from youthful anger to old age, slanting long-sighted eyes to see nothing pleasing to the eye. "If you live or die, don't ask for it, be aware of yourself…" You have a more complete understanding of yourself and you can find an entry point for resolving conflicts.
34. The past was too heavy and incisive and it was difficult to leave home
The reason why a lot of people are difficult to be happy is because they cannot put hatred on others in their hearts. They do not know that hatred is in fact a double-edged sword, hurting others.
35. Doing “good old people” regardless of right and wrong
There is nothing wrong with good intentions, but it is also necessary to distinguish between right and wrong, regardless of the goodness of the principle. It is “hypocritical”, just like Mr. Dong Guo. Therefore, before you understand whether it is worthwhile to make a decision, you must dare to say "no", not to be used by others, and not to be the scapegoat of others.
36. Why can't someone go with me?
Thank you to those who hurt you because he has tempered your heart. Thank you to those who deceive you because he has increased your wisdom. Thanks to the people who slaughtered you because he has ridiculed your will….Thanks to all who have made you grow up. Because of him, you will continue to progress.
41, happiness is always elsewhere
The most miserable aspect of human nature is that we always dream of a wonderful rose garden on the horizon, instead of admiring the roses that are on our window today.
42, lack of encouragement from others, lack of motivation
It is better for others to look at themselves than others. In the path of life, we must learn to give ourselves a smile. Add enough oil and get enough gas. Is there any more trouble?
43 The job is busy without time off
In life, we are often tightened by an invisible thread, so you struggle, run and do your best, but the result is tantamount to suicide. Sometimes when you take a break and have a nap, you often receive unexpected results. Because of the suspension, it is to fuel your life journey, in order to better get back on the road.
44, by the nature to live out the self
When you are angry, you can't use anger, and you can deter surrounding collaborators. When you are depressed, you indulge your wilting and waste many of the fleeting opportunities. On the road to success, the biggest enemy is actually not lack of opportunities, or shallow qualifications, but lack of control over one's emotions.
45. Measure and demand others with your own standards
Many times, people are "good intentions" but have done "bad things" because we mistakenly regard their own preferences as others' preferences and ask others according to their own preferences.
46. Be mean and hard to tolerate others
Tolerants are like a spring breeze that is invigorating, and people are intimacy. In general, it is better to choose tolerant than choosing a harsh one.
47. There is no guard against the "destructive elements"
In our work and life, there are always people like this. They are telling people right and wrong, causing people to hate them. They are truly rotten apples in their own circles. What we need to do is to “clear the line” with them or maintain a safe distance so as not to be “infected” by them.
48, the old can't go with him
Many annoyances are arbitrarily disturbed. Learn to let yourself be a horse. There are no unhappy people in the world, and only those who refuse to make you happy.
49, worried, always worried about bad things happening
Facts have proved that the vast majority of people's anxieties and fears have never happened. Don't be overwhelmed by unnecessary "baggage", learn to calmly, and laugh at life.
50, contentment, mediocrity is also no harm
We can't fly, but we can fly our dreams. The obvious thing about the outstanding person is different from the mediocre person, that is, let the spirit's goshawk fly volley.
Postscript: Do you know? Some of the things or things that you think are right are actually illusions for a long time. In some cases, we must understand meditation and think about how we plan for life. Then the above 50 people are born with illusions. Do you see through it?
37. People who always criticize others are the most annoying
People who can rightly criticize and accuse us of our shortcomings and mistakes are our rare best friends. Well-intentioned criticism is like a pot of fine wine. When we revel in the world of drinking among friends and colleagues, the factors of criticism seem to be hidden in each Intuitive sensory cells.
38, always feel bad for their frustration
In the face of setbacks, you should feel fortunate because it proves that you will face greater challenges and challenges, and that you also have room for improvement.
39. Often find an excuse for failure, but do not find a way for success
A beautiful "excuse" will only lose one's will and confidence. As long as we learn to do everything we can, and do everything possible to work hard, there will be no "great problems" in the world, but failures and regrets caused by insufficient efforts.
40, just hurry to get lost and lost
As the saying goes, “stealing a half-day idle”, we don’t need to be in a hurry and live very tired. When frustration and jealousy burn every nerve of us, when there is no choice but to surrender, we need to give the mood a vacation, because we are alive, and it is only for the sake of hurrying.