In life, "lose is gain, and gain is loss." There is only one line of separation between our success and failure. We think it is right. We are proud. Therefore, Yan Huijue’s alleyway, where he eats food and drinks, can also be proud of it. The king of Qin unified the six countries and annexed the world, but also can be disappointed. There must be gains and losses, and there must be gains. If the income is high, it is an increase. It does not feel rejoicing. If you lose something, you will be afraid. If you lose more, you will lose again and you will not feel pain. If you gain something, you will be very happy. Therefore, being proud is the cause of frustration, and disappointment is the fruit of success.
When we embark on the road of life, everyone expects more things of their own, or to have more wealth; or have more rights and interests; or for their own dignity. On the road of chasing "de", it is inevitable that we encounter our "adversary" and will unknowingly harm others' "interests." The "disappointment" will follow, and we may lose our friendship with our brothers and sisters, and we will lose our precious life-like integrity. In enjoying the joy of "going", more people will disregard the pain of "losing" brought about by "de". In the days of frantically chasing "dee," "losing" can only be a necessary cost of gaining "de". There is nothing to be surprised. Such "costs" have accumulated more and more, and "harvest" has also greatly increased with the day. At this time, we know that the balance between gain and loss is tilted and the position is reversed. How many people became prisoners of "de" during the long years of the years, and how many people fell on the bumpy road that escaped the "lost" and never climbed again. At this time, we learned that: There is no big difference between success and failure.
Whether we think that those who look down on “going” and “losing” become the weight of their lives, and those who chase “gain” may become “diseases” in life. In fact, in our life, we are constantly weighing the gains and losses of choices. We are busy, running around, looking for… between gains and losses… The balance between gains and losses shows the character of a person and the interpretation of a person’s loftiness. With smallness, the true value of a person is written.
"Fish and bear's paw can't have both," and our ancestors have already warned us of the truth about what to lose. When you choose the splendor of the summer, you will lose the romance of the autumn. When you choose to carry a heavy bag, you will also have to bear the embarrassment of leaving home. No matter if it is sweet or sad, when we make a decision to take care of homes, we must bear the share of success and failure that comes with it. It is between your thoughts. When people are frustrated in life, they look up at the sky. Whether the daytime is open and bright and endless, or the stars are twinkling and deep at night, compared to how small the heartache and pain are, nothing worth mentioning. When you are proud of your life, look down and see the earth. Whether it is the dividing line between heaven and earth in the distance, or the gravel stones that are in close proximity, you can't control them. If you can't control them, then please put your past honors and pride on the brain. Afterwards, with a humble heart, he continued to walk forward. People have desires and they multiply endlessly. The temptations of Gong, Ming, Li, and Lu are hard to persuade. As a result, the world has been struggling with more disputes and more troubles. When people can't think of it, the heart will have a lot of trouble.
Advocating a simple life, a touch of light, a faint glory, and a small but infrequent appearance in exchange for spiritual purity, tolerance for life, tolerance for society, and lack of demand, are the inner peace and orderliness. Work hard for life, enough to maintain decent, but do not forget, because life needs perseverance, but more important is still revel. Simply living, kind, straightforward and magnanimous, there is time and emotion to comment on the taste of life and enjoy life. The quiet beauty like autumn leaves comes lightly, goes lightly, touches lightly, gives people peace, gives people a faint desire, and lives with simplicity and flavor.
Refused to practice the kind of rivers and lakes slick character, love yourself more than love everyone. In the affliction of the world and the hustle and bustle of the day, she steals idleness, modifies herself to nourish herself, and cares for her long hair with her indifferent state of mind. What she presents is an early morning sun smile, a dignified bearing, and a profound Connotation. As the dust of the day settled, I would read a little book under the lamp, repair the rough soul, and make myself still gentle and happy. Relaxed and generous, cultivate a calm modality, and a healthy mind. Love and hatred, grievances and gains and losses, although not forgotten, but you can be generous, so that all slowly deposited in memory, because they know clearly, some memories of the only destination is from the soul to the grave.
The road to life is not always a road full of sunshine flowers. Sometimes there are gaps and hustle and bustles. Many of the successes and failures are not all we can expect, nor are we all able to bear, but as long as we work hard to do it. , to obtain a calm after giving, will also be a pleasure. Being criticized, it doesn't matter, correcting it in time, drawing lessons; being praised, not be proud of, summing up experience, and making persistent efforts; getting, not complacent, artificial behavior; losing, not degenerating, frustrated, self-conceited; as long as there is a calm heart True and honest life, indifferent, lost and calm, laugh at the changing situation, you will find that everything is just so.
Be far from being mean and vulgar, understand what love is, what is not love, what is yours, what is not yours. Everything in this world is always a sure thing. Love can give you joy, but it also gives you pain; wealth can give you enjoyment, but it also brings distress; success makes you happy, but when it fails, the pain will become strong and unbearable. Even if we have the whole world, we can only eat three meals a day and a bed at night. Even if you have a hundred beds, you can only sleep one bed; even if you have a thousand pairs of shoes, you can only wear one pair. Even if you can order 100 dishes, how much can you eat? Can only support one stomach at most, isn't it?
Determined to live for himself, to do something he likes in his own way, not to care about other people's gossip, only care about the natural nature of that desire. Occasionally I can condone my wave, and there is a kind of mischief. In life, I just do my best to my heart, to my own heart, to my loved ones, to my heart, to my heart, and to my heart's content in my life. Since I have tried my heart, I don’t care if it’s a success or failure. Many things will be willing, relaxed, know how to live, know how to release, naturally proud of the spring, clearing the moon.
Yes, it is tempting to have so many extraneous things. If I get it, indiscriminately disposing of it, I will not forget it; if I lose it, I will not feel great pain, and my body will not hurt. In such a way, it will not suffer from anything other than physical things, and it will not be burdened by anything other than physical things. Let it be natural This is a word that people are slamming into their hearts when they are unable to solve problems and then want to solve problems. This reason is really good. A good one gives one's face to the outside, and gives one's own inner comfort. All unanswerable questions can be explained naturally. Sometimes thinking about it is natural. The clothes came to reach, the meal opened, and I slept, slept, and did not want anything. It was so much fun.
People come to experience the experience of the world, and each person's wealth may be divided into high and low levels, but no difference in happiness and happiness. Only the rich people's happiness is more complicated. The poor are more pure and happy. It's just this difference. At the same time, there are several men or women, and not a single person is also happy. – Someone gets three. Someone gets seven. Three get three-point happiness. You get seven-point happiness. Those who get seven-point happiness have three-point happiness. Someone gets it first. Someone gets it. Someone did not get anything. – The ones that are obtained first may be lost first, and those that are obtained later will be lost. Those that are not obtained will not be lost. That total is the same. Therefore, life really doesn't have to worry too much about it, and you don't have to deliberately calculate it. Just experience it. The world is always colorful, and there are blacks and whites. Take your own path. Don't be jealous of others. Perhaps when we are satisfied, we are not happy. It feels that such a meaning does not play a role in itself. It is only a psychological balance. Learning to be unconcerned is actually a highlight of our humanity and the most straightforward manifestation of tolerance. Only by taking hold of one's own heart, let our hearts be no longer fragile, and instead of seeking an irrelevant sentence, let ourselves pursue those hypocritical things. Don't think too much. It will be different if you live.
When life is bleak, please don’t complain, and be sensible to see it, and reflect the brightness of wisdom through its surface energy. When you are sad, please don’t immerse yourself in tears. Try to explore the deep Reason: When the ugliness of human nature is revealed in front of you, please do not forget that there is a good side behind! There is only one life to survive. Since there is no future life, we should make it more meaningful to live in. Let’s live every day. Start from now, and act from this moment, do not have to be entangled in the past. Grasp this process of survival. Look all the way. It is also a respect for this life to be admired and appreciate the scenery outside the window, ready to get off the road and leave without regret.
As long as we are still alive, it is good. The meaning of life is not how many extraneous things we have, but whether we can have a happy heart. A greeting, a cup of tea, a flower may make you move, that is, the joy of life. To satisfy a little more, happiness will be more. Since this is the case, we come to this world and may wish to be masters, and we must be a master of mastery. We must design the most beautiful itinerary without taking into account the gains and losses. In this way, even if it is attributed to dust in the future, it will be self-possessed. Life is very short and it is like a meteor blowing through the sky. In the short term, why should you be tired of the worldly things? Life is easy and calm, let it go… Life is short lived, people are living to find a more suitable way of life and survival methods, tired, do not be tired!