At this age, simpleness is almost detached. There is still a long way to maturity. No matter whether it is an experience or connotation, there is a feeling of being unable to do it. At this age, it seems to us that all of us are already grown up. It can only be understood by ourselves. , not only can not install the deep and can not sell Meng, Jane to the point in the course of life is not connected. However, this matter of growing up is not a matter of reading a few books, and there are no books of life in the world that can be sewn up. It is possible to cross this period of time. Therefore, even if there are more and more troubles, it will still be a good thing. Go on.
Since the days have always passed, it is time to ponder over how to live well and how to live a meaningful life. The so-called 10,000 years is too long to contend. Therefore, from the short-lived experience of life, there are the following feelings, and it is only self-engraving to write it down.
In addition to those who inherited the family business, friends around you have no shortage of young and talented individuals who dare to fight hard and have outstanding abilities and start their own business as early as possible. However, most people are still the mainstay of the above classes, accumulating experience, and accumulating funds or personal connections. In short, they are also living down-to-earth. For me personally, I don't encourage my peers to actively start a business. I don't say a lot about the difficulties of setting aside a business. The key is that you are not suitable for starting a business. This is a prerequisite. It's not because I have read a few successful lessons. I read a few books. The biographies of celebrities find that they have something in common with these people and they think that they can, and then they are far too good to be far apart from the reality to talk about their dreams. I once went awkward in this respect, and I feel this way. Of course, this does not mean that you are not thinking about this idea, but you must first recognize yourself and then know your current environment and consider the next possible step based on your own and the industry's factors. However, whether you have a career or not, you must have a dedication. This is the motivation to keep you motivated and your self-confidence.
At this age, rather than living, it is better to live. However, there is a difference between survival and survival. Three meals a day are for living, and for living is for three meals a day. This is in itself a difference in the pursuit. Like a concept in "Poor Daddy, Rich Dad", you can't control your life based on your income, otherwise you'll only become a slave to money. There is nothing wrong with the pursuit of quality, but we must also understand what quality is. I am admired by a senior student. His income is not high, but his life is very rich. There are not many clothes in his closet, but there are two sets of clothing for spring, summer, autumn and winter. Whether they are formal or casual clothes, he can wear the corresponding clothes for any occasion, giving people a feeling that is not ordinary. He also bought some cheap and small creative items on the Internet. What star lights and small crafts are all decorated in the room, which makes life seem special. In fact, the money spent is not enough for my money for a month. On the other hand, there are a lot of clothes in the closet, but at the key time, they always feel that they don’t have clothes to wear, and they rarely pay attention to their lives and are extremely monotonous.
A person's taste can often be seen from the place of habit, just as if a person has no tutoring, as can be seen from the manner of eating. I get along with my girlfriend, and she is especially fond of her eating. Her manners are generous, she can't wait for a moment, and she is extremely demeanor. Every time she eats herself, she can't help but put down her chopsticks and stares at her. . A good habit for boys is not to not smoke or drink, but to be able to be alone and self-disciplined, and to constantly improve their connotation and quality in daily activities. A colleague, who insisted on reading an hour's book every night, would be swearing at the time of slapstick. However, if he talks seriously about the days, he will find that he is humorous and has something to say, so I also like to sit with him. Drink tea together. For me, I have no fixed habits, but I am currently improving. I started dating my friends to go swimming together every week. I fixed off to work and play. When I was alone, I took a look at the video of a violin, wrote an article or painted a picture. In short, I wanted to make things that I was interested in become an integral part of my life. . I have always believed that a career can make you brilliant, but to create miracles, it is often a habit that you are interested and persistent.
I think I am a passionate person. However, as Yi Shu said, love must hurt. Of course, my sentimentality is not a matter of ambiguity, but because of the poet's general illusions about emotions, I always talk about emotional issues like an emotional expert. At this age, if you talk about pure love, it is estimated that most people only smile and shake, believe in existence, but do not believe that it will happen to you. Age and understanding of reality have told you that love without bread is, at best, only a romantic obsession. As a buddy said, there are a lot of girls who are married to you nowadays. However, since the eight lovers who are planning to get married are in love, they are actually poor and therefore choose to be single, leaving at least a pure love for the future. half. In 2015, I said that I would like to talk about love with myself. In fact, this is not narcissism, but it is the true idea in my heart. Maybe it's because of my unsuccessful emotional history. I was thinking that instead of going to old age or pursuing love to please a person who can only accept hardcover editions instead of home editions, it's better to change yourself and let yourself fall in love with the family. Version of yourself, and then go to love. You can't love yourself, and how can you make others fall in love with you? Even if you use your means to make a beautiful person return, then how long this love can last is a question worth considering.
At this age, we are already adults in the eyes of others, and we still have a child in our hearts. When watching the friends circle one after another friend show wedding photos, received one after another invitation cards, my heart silently bless them, but also began to worry about their current situation. Is it that we are not good enough or are we not lucky enough? Maybe not, but we are not yet ready. We have not been so strong in accepting our own self. Perhaps what we need is just an extremely responsible choice for ourselves.