Friend S is an energetic person. There are almost no single photos in his circle of friends. Every day, he is taking selfies with different close friends. S is indeed born with a talent to mobilize the atmosphere. Whether it's singing or dining together, he can always warm up quickly and save the cold field in the middle.
Some time ago, Fuzhou held the Youth Games. He went to volunteer, met a new group of friends, and wore clothes in the clothes, jumping around the court.
In this city, which cannot be considered as a first-line city, there must be a large-scale event and the presence of S must be active. His circle of friends has suddenly become an activity section of a metropolitan newspaper, broadcasting real-time news about the city.
Whenever I scan his circle of friends one by one, I will create a kind of self-defeating "not worthy of being in a city with him."
Friends L are very different. L whispered little, did not love lively, not to discuss right and wrong, on the weekday alone in a single image alone. When they went to school, everyone was in competition with the squad leader and the Communist Party Secretary who had had an official appetite. He only picked a job as a "labour commissioner."
We are not deep-seated because we have chosen an elective course and we will only meet once a week. Bored between classes, there will always be a little talk about personal matters.
After graduating, we rarely contacted until one day when I received his call, he asked me to guess where he was.
Before I waited for an opening, he uttered a smirk and robbed me: "Ah, I know you can't guess. I'm on the shore of Lake Baikal!"
He then began to talk about himself. At the time of college, there was a very widespread post on the Internet, saying that people must take a railway to Russia for a lifetime. At that time, the elective teacher was spitting about sugar metabolism. I showed him with excitement. As a result, the teacher did not memorize the metabolic diagram of sugar on the blackboard. Instead, he remembered the path of the mountain, grassland, and birch forest. Lake Baikal would like to come to mind.
The old boy, he remembered all sorts of details better than me.
He said that women in Russia are stronger than you, hahaha.
I said, roll.
The mouth is not rich, but my heart is warm.
There was a period of time when a friend circled a popular event and S. Jun sent a lot of them, and then distributed them to friends in a respectful manner, asking everyone for help.
In the meantime, I was not busy at work, and I didn't write much on the manuscript, but I didn't even have the desire to slip into his circle of friends.
One day, when he went to a big dinner, S-jun also happened to complain to me, too often, that the number of people in the circle of friends was not enough.
I was taken aback: "I think you're on the first day with your network."
He smiled and said: "Where, ah, every time I praise I have made a mass two or three times, and finally embarrassed to send again, but still not enough."
I did not respond with guilty conscience, for I feared that he would not participate in the matter when he mentioned a few words of praise. He even wondered if he would attack me with scorn.
However, L occasionally sent "seeking to like, seek forward", when I opened, the following have already had his message: Thank you friends for help, my praise is enough!
From the close relationship between the relationship, I undoubtedly are more familiar with S. In the university era, we jointly planned countless large and small social activities. We worked through the night battles, wrote plans, and sponsored them. After spending time together, sipping a big wine and sharing the joy of success.
But S-jun seems to be familiar with the entire world, and his world does not lack me. He was not alone in the night with the lantern he had picked; and he had not only had one of his drinks.
In his state of affairs, he is always a person I do not know. I have never seen the scenery. He went out to play with his new friends, and the smiling faces in the pictures he took out were all people I didn't know. How rich are his joys, sorrows and joys, but there is not a trace of any trace of me.
S Jun let me feel no sense of existence, even if it is only very weak and small existence.
Sometimes we have to admit that the desire to possess love and concern hidden deep in the human heart is such extreme selfishness. It must also be admitted that, in addition to love, friendship is also exclusive.
This is not worth professing and becomes the cause of any kind of seizure or crime. However, they should not be verbally expelled. At most, they are mischievous acts of God when they create mankind.
We all want to be the only one for others. If we cannot, we hope that we will be at least a little more special than others.
Like L to me: When I saw Baikal, I suddenly thought of you.
At that moment, I felt like I had a crescent-shaped lake in the heart of L.
Crowding people's hearts is sometimes very simple: if you don't use sweet words, you care about the weakest one, which is the most determined witness of friendship.
I also made S's mistake and mistakenly thought that managing a good circle of friends and frequently gaining other people's praise is a social queen. In fact, the meaning of those praises is just "Your life is very good" or "You have read", not "How are you doing?" "I miss you".
With a lot of hard work, a friend cares and gives greetings. The exclusive memory of the two people is far more valuable than the swaying circle of friends.
Author: Bean cat reading / Lin Fu