friend S is an energetic person, with few single photos in his circle of friends, and every day is a close friend that is different from each other. S does appear to be born with the talent to mobilize the atmosphere, both singing together or dinner, he always warm, midway can save in the invisible silence.
some time ago, the Fuzhou games do. He went to do volunteer, met a lot of new friends, wearing a small fruit clothes jumping up and down on the sidelines.
in this city can not be the front line of the city, all of the large activities, will be active in the figure of the S. His circle of friends has become an activity section of a city newspaper, real-time broadcast of the city’s various trends.
often swept his circle of friends, I will have a “not with him in the same city” shame.
friend L is very different. L love lively, wordless, not on non, a pair of extremely lonely lonely appearance on weekdays. When going to school, everyone in the competition, monitor group secretary had empleomania, but he chose a “Labor Committee” drudgery.
we are not very friendly, because we have chosen an elective course for a week. During the boring, often causally chat in private. We seldom contacted
after graduation, until one day, I received a phone call from him, and he asked me to guess where he was.
so I do not speak, he is a bad smile qiangbai my words: “ah, you know that you could not guess, I in the Baikal lake!”
then he selfishly speaking, when I was in University, the network has a very wide spread of post, said a person must take a railway to russia. At the time of elective teacher is tuomohengfei speaking with sugar metabolism, I happy for him, the teacher wrote the blackboard full sugar metabolism schematic he didn’t remember, but remember this road, mountains, grasslands, birch forest, Lake Baikal, is to come.
old youth, he remembered more details than I knew.
he said that Russian women than you are strong, ha ha ha.
I said, roll.
‘s mouth is not Rao, but the heart is warm.
for a period of time, the popular circle of friends set like activities, Mr. S for the many, then respectfully sending to friends, to help point praise.
at that time, my work is not busy, it also does not write, can even point slipped into his circle of friends did not desire.
one day, went to a big dinner, Mr. S was also in, hastened to complain to me, how a circle of friends praise number is always not enough.
I was surprised: “with your connections, I thought you had saved it as early as the first day.”
he smile: “where ah, every time I set like a mass two or three times, finally feel shy again hair, but still not enough.”
I guiltily didn’t respond, lest he bring several points like me are not involved in the matter, even suspect that he is not insinuating to allude to me.
is L’s occasional request for “point approval and forwarding”. When I opened it, there was already his message: Thank you for your help, my praise is enough.
from the relationship, and I is more familiar with some S Jun. In college, we have worked on numerous large and small clubs, night night together, write planning, sponsorship, boiled red eyes. Together afterwards, drank a big wine, to share the joy of success. But
S seems to be the whole world with you, his world is not a lack of. And he had to burn the midnight oil, I’m not the only one; and he drank too much wine, I have more than a.
the state of his hair is always the person I don’t know, the scenery I haven’t seen. He went out to play with his new friends, and the smiling faces in the pictures were all the people I didn’t know. How rich the passions are not his, a tiny bit about my marks.
S makes me feel no sense of my existence, even if it is only very weak and small.
sometimes we have to admit that the possessive desire for love and attention that is hidden in the heart of human beings is so selfish. We also have to admit that friendship is also exclusive in addition to love.
this is not worth a lot of publicity, as a cause of any kind of preemption or crime. It should not be criticized, at the most is God made man, do the practical joke.
we all want to be someone else’s the only one, and if not, we want to be at least a bit more special than others.
was like L to me: when I saw the Lake Baikal, I suddenly thought of you.
that moment, I felt in the heart of L, more than others, a crescent shaped lake.
over sometimes very simple: sweet talk no more, a faint care is the most assured witness of friendship.
I also made S mistakes, mistaken thinking that running a good circle of friends, the frequent gain of other people’s praise is the social queen. In fact, those who praise the meaning is just “your life is really good” or “I read”, rather than “how are you” “I miss you”.
attentively pays close attention to friends and sends thoughtful regards to friends. The exclusive memory of two people is far more valuable than a circle of friends who flickered.
Author: pea cat reading / Lin Yifu