Five colors in life
Color is the language of nature, colorful, colorful, gorgeous expression is her expression. Life is also the same, everyone's life is like a picture, colorful, colorful. Life is more like a kaleidoscope, gently turning, red, orange, yellow, green, blue, blue, purple streams are present, colorful, eye-catching. However, no matter how rich the variety of colors, science strips off the romance of art, and it will leave the colorful back four to stay three, making the complexity simple and eventually leaving only the three primary colors of red, yellow, and blue.
Therefore, some people began to make a fuss and interpreted the original meaning and meaning of red, yellow, and blue.
Some people say that red is the color of life. It is a flowing blood. It represents passion and heat. It shows courage and boldness. Yellow is the color of wealth, showing brilliance and hope, reflecting nobleness and kindness; blue is the color of the ocean. , showing a vast and profound, meaning broad and wisdom.
Others said that red symbolizes the human body, yellow refers to the family of human beings, and blue refers to the work of human beings. A reasonable mix of red, yellow, and blue can transform rainbows into gorgeous ones. Any reduction or weakening of any of these three colors will affect the color and brightness of the rainbow.
Someone even went deeper into the world and said: Ability, character, and temperament are the three primary colors for drawing life pictures. Some people disagree that they think that loneliness, desire, and love are the eternal primary colors of life.
The imaginative people cannot fully express tricolor and expand to five colors. To use red to metaphor the faith of life, faith to achieve life; to use green metaphor for the simplicity of life, simple and freehand life; to use the orange metaphor for thanksgiving, to express gratitude to the gentle life; to use blue metaphors for inclusion, to contain the life of sublimation; to use black metaphor for self-discipline and self-discipline to warn life .
I also want to join in the fun and talk about life with five "colors". But my "color" is not their "color".
When people come to this world, the most important thing is to grasp the principle of doing things for others and be a good person. Although everyone's principle is not the same, I believe that self-esteem, self-respect, self-respect, self-cultivation, doing their duty, and exerting advantages are the most basic common principles in life. We must use these principles to apply the five "colors" of our lives.
Do not look at his face and stand up for self-esteem and self-improvement. People must first learn how to be self-esteem. People can have nothing but they can't live without self-esteem. Human dignity is the root of human beings. Many people admire the four realms that deal with the relationship between man and man and man, consider themselves as self-respected people, consider themselves as others, and have no self; treat others as others, wisdom; treat others as themselves, compassion. The superiority of the wise man is still to regard himself as himself. If one's best cultivation is to respect others, then one's most basic power is respected. Only respect for others can be respected. In fact, respecting others means respecting oneself. People who do not respect others will never be respected by others. Self-esteem begins with respecting others. Self-respect, but self-esteem is inseparable from self-reliance. Only by self-reliance and self-reliance can we gain dignity. People must be self-reliant. On the one hand, they should not place their hopes and dependencies on anyone, but on others they can only take advantage of the situation. All of them must ultimately rely on themselves, and they must be the most loyal to themselves. Life needs us not to rely on others, learn to be independent, and life reminds us not to expect others to learn and strengthen ourselves. When you pick up the whole life, life will return you to a full self. On the other hand, we must continue to learn, operate, arm, promote, and make continuous improvement so that we can become stronger. As Charlie Munger puts it, "The surest way to get what you want is to make yourself worthy of it." When oneself grows, the ability is outstanding, and the influence is expanded, no one can give you a look. It has always been applause and flowers to welcome useful people.
Identify the goods and make friends to be true to perfect. People are social animals. No matter where you live, you have to deal with people and connect with others. Robinson's isolated island alone does not exist in real life. Marx said long ago that "the essence of man is the sum of social relations." The most important thing to deal with people is to identify yourself. Society is a big river, what kind of people are, people should choose to pay. The person who eventually becomes a person is largely determined by the circle of his life. So people often say that the circle determines life.
The key to identifying goods is to grasp two aspects. First, what kind of person do you want to know? What kind of person do you want to be? It is harder for people to know themselves than to know others. The goal of establishing the kind of person you want to become determines the other goals of life. Only by setting a goal can we have a direction of cultivation and only a certain direction. Only when we actively look for people who are close to the “three views” can we reflect on the gap between ourselves and the target audience and improve and adjust them in a timely manner. What kind of person should one do? I think there are ten criteria: to be a person who sees no wisdom, wants to be open-minded, a person who is not anxious, a person who is not eager to be honest, a person who is modest and does not want to be deterred, who puts down people who are not savvy, and who strives to be confident. The people, the people who are not alone, the people who are not alone, the people who are not alone, the people who are far from quiet, and those who are not contented.
Second, learn to identify people around your work and living environment, and select people to associate with. How to know people, the ancients left a lot of wisdom. For example, Confucius once said, "Beginning with my own person, I listen to his words and believe in his actions. Today I also listen to people and listen to their words." Observing a person's behavior in different situations infers his inner world. See the essence of a person. More comprehensive are "seven-spot knowledge of humans and seven techniques". The general principle is to observe their rituals, while one is to observe the progress of one's actions, one is to observe one's actions, one is to observe one's actions, one is to observe one's actions, and the other is to observe one's actions. It is said that the poor are not subject to observation. These are all principles. How do you know people? I think that one person can be divided into five levels from the top to the bottom: appearance, ability, temper, character, and character. The corresponding quality is also five levels: value, talent, character, character, and compassion. These five levels are both a way of knowing people in the world and a way to cultivate inner spirituality. Beginning with the value of color, respect for talent, together with personality, long-term character, and finally compassion, this is a complete path. But whether it is to cultivate one's self or hand in it, the most fundamental thing is sincerity and kindness. It is sincere not to disguise, refrain from, or deceive. To understand tolerance, understanding, understanding and understanding is kindness. Only with true and kindness as the standard can we meet like-minded people and be able to sympathize with people who want to join together, so that we can reach real friends with the same interests.
Keeping in mind the true colors, men are based on self-cultivation. The most precious thing about being a man is not to forget the book. The truth, after all, is a person's character, character is the highest academic qualifications, a person no matter how talented the talent, how knowledgeable and profound, how superb, how excellent the background conditions, if you do not know how to behave, the character is poor, then he It will certainly not be far away, and the business will be greatly affected. "The child wants to be the first thing to be a saint." Character is the most precious asset. People can be poor and can be low, but they must cultivate their own products. "Book of Rites • University," said: "Personality and then know until, Zhizhi then sincere, sincere and later, righteousness, and later repaired himself, body repair and then Qijia, Qi and then rule the country, the country then ruled the world. The so-called self-cultivation is the practice of cultivators. Therefore, good character is not only the foundation of a person, but also the hardest sign of a person. It is also the biggest capital and guarantee of life.
Keeping in mind the true nature of being a man is to use the words "honesty, respect, quietness, patience, and constantness" as the basis to cultivate one's own character. Sincerely, it neither deceives itself nor deceives people. It is true for people. It is for the sake of the facts. It does not fly on small profits. It is not short-sighted. It respects people, treats people with respect, and works steadfastly, staying humble and low-key. Pride, self-satisfaction, people, quietness, undisciplined, unassuming, insight into the world, wait-and-see, time and place, indifferent to the Ming dynasty, quiet and far-reaching; meticulous, meticulous, utterances, open-mindedness, tongue movement, non-life, group office Keep your mouth and stay alone to keep your heart in mind, but not as much as you do. Moderate is the highest; constant, perseverance, perseverance, will, determination, courage, and hardship do not shrink, frustration does not stop.
Specifically speaking, self-cultivation is to cultivate more important characters than ability. First, integrity and kindness. An honest person who works with conscience and keeps things on the bottom line must always be aware of what is right or wrong and stick to the truth. Kindness is a key element of good character. Good people often have gratitude, are kind to others, do not do anything that is irrational, and are prosperous and charitable. Second, tolerance and kindness. Tolerance is actually a sign of broad minds. It is often said that "there is tolerance and greatness." If a person has a tolerant heart, he will be able to tolerate things that are difficult in the world. The people who are tolerate people are kind and kind. They are willing to lose out and think for others. The ancients said that if we have a virtue, if we have a good virtue, there will be nothing that we cannot bear. Third, honesty and trustworthiness. "If you want to be a great manager, you must be honest." Honesty is the foundation of the body and is the virtue of others. People are not sincere and cannot be committed. Honesty and trustworthiness are closely linked. "People don't have faith, but they are unknown." If a person has no credit, nothing can be done. If one wants to talk about what is said and what must be done, if one has a word of mouth for trustworthy people, he will gain the trust of others and become a reliable person. He will have good connections and will follow suit. Fourth, modesty and caution. The ancient saying goes, “No matter what kind of person you are, there must be no snobbery. No matter how you learn and work, you must not have rough buoyancy.” Chairman Mao Zedong also said that "modest people make progress and pride makes people fall behind." It is always a good thing to look down on yourself at any time. It is not only good for your own progress but also conducive to getting along with others, but you are only blessed. Proud people will be disgusted, humble, and loved. To be cautious is to do "seven cautions", be cautious, and cultivate their morality; be cautious and follow their principles; be cautious, and be careful; be careful and independent; cleanse themselves; be cautious, and seek festivals; Shen You, to prevent its chaos; careful early, in order to quit their evil. Careful people, working in prison, careless people, always making mistakes.
Grasp the role and do the best for the job. If life is likened to a drama, life is a big stage. Each of us has its own role. The most important task of a person's life is to position himself and play his role. Everyone in our lives is playing different roles. In the family, we may be sons, daughters, possibly fathers, mothers, and possibly husbands and wives. It may be that… In the unit, we may be employees or leaders. In society, we may be workers, may be farmers, may be soldiers, may be doctors, may be… In short, we must play A character. To perform these roles, you must practice extraordinary acting skills. On the stage of theater, an actor can play a hero or a clown, but on the stage of life, we can't act, but we can truly interpret the story of our life and can only perform ourselves. Life is a real life. Each character is a part of real life. To play a good role in one's life, one must grasp the role of one's own life.
Life is not as easy as traveling, and life is harsh. Every day we rush between families, units, and society. The roles are constantly changing. We pursue the success of life and pursue the happiness of life. This requires us to maintain a clear sense of the role. In the family, when you are a parent, you should take care of your parenting duties with love; when you are children, you should show your gratitude with the heart of gratitude; when you are a husband and wife, you should share the same heart. In the society, when you are a citizen, you should use your moral heart to comply with laws and regulations; when you are friends, you should share your emotions and grief with tolerance; in your organization, you should love. The heart of Gang makes due diligence. No matter what role it is, the most important thing is to let its sense of role be remembered, accumulated, and treasured in our hearts, and it is timely to express, transmit, and infect. The most critical role is to fulfill the role. As the most common ordinary people, subject to the conditions imposed by heaven, such as birth, family, talent, talent, appearance, etc., we have to live in some unchangeable life roles, but regardless of the role played, we like not to. Like, you have to change your own role through hard work and spelling to create your own life. Only by grasping the position of one's own role, remembering the responsibility of the role, and understanding the role deduction rules, can we grasp the good life. Whether this role is pre-screen or behind-the-scenes, whether it is the protagonist or the supporting role, whether it is ordinary or great, when we play with our heart and strive to perfect it, we will certainly be able to obtain an inner enrichment and happiness.
Highlight the features and refine to take advantage of the wings. Just like there are no two identical leaves under the sky, everyone is different from others and has its own characteristics. Just as every coin has its front and back sides, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. The trick of life is to find your own characteristics, find your own strengths, and manage your own strengths. Only by understanding one's own characteristics and exerting their own strengths can we find the advantages and reflect our self-worth. Only by playing their own advantages can we achieve the value of life. Franklin once said that "Baby misplaced the convenience is waste." Just as letting a fish climb a tree and let a rabbit swim, if a person stands in the wrong position and uses his weaknesses instead of his strength to make a living, it will be terrible. He is likely to perish permanently. Frustrated and humble.
Everyone has infinite potential and unique features. These characteristics, or the performance of a distinctive personality; or the performance of a unique style; or a specialty expertise; or a field of skills. So, how to maximize their own advantages? First, self-summarizing and discovering your own characteristics. In life and work, you feel that one thing is easier to do, more confident, and the effect is special. Then you must have the advantage in this area. If you learn something newer than others, you can use it to bypass the problem. Being faster than average people means that you have talent in that area. Usually people do it in a laborious and time-consuming manner, but you do it lightly. These are your strengths. Second, control comparison. Strengthen your own characteristics. Many skills that are good at using the more skilled, more skilled and super. This is always the case. People are more and more interested in what they do. The more interested they are, the more they can find fun, and the more they are happy, the more they will want to do it, creating a positive cycle. Therefore, when one finds one's expertise, he or she should consciously strengthen it, be proficient in one art or be successful in one industry, and be guided by higher standards, striving to be replaced by no one else, and to be fully prosperous. Finally, seize the opportunity to show your own characteristics. Have characteristics, behave and have advantages to show. Learn to be good at marketing yourself. Managing yourself is the first major business of life. Marketing yourself is the top priority in life. If you compare life to a business, you can sell yourself to sell a good price is the key to this transaction. In this process, let others understand themselves and make friends. We must create opportunities, build platforms, expose features, and highlight advantages. Only in this way, your characteristics and strengths will become wings for boosting your life, and your life will take off.
People are often used to describe the five flavors of life with "sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty". Life is indeed like a "five taste bottle." Isn't life like a "palette"? Color and taste are more complete life. Adjust the five "colors" of life so that your life is colorful and colorful, depicting five "color" lives and making your life happy!
April 1, 2018
Written in the waters of Wuchang South Lake