As the saying goes, "There is no woman who is not soft, only a man who does not hurt."
A good marriage often has such a commonality: men are very warm, and women are also very soft.
Because the warm man knows how to hurt people, he understands the woman's difficulty, knows how to be grateful and kind. In such a loving marriage, how can a woman not be soft?
On the contrary, if men are “cold” and selfish and do not know how to think for women, then their marriage must have no temperature, and women must have no love without warmth.
Both aunt and uncle were sixty-somethings. My aunt worked hard all her life, so she still could not afford to live in the fields. Uncle knew that her aunt was not free. He never stopped. But he was afraid that the aunt would be too tired and he would always hold a pipe behind her. When my aunt worked, I talked with her and helped us to fight. It wouldn't make my aunt too boring.
When I went back, my uncle was always scrambling to grab farm implements. Then he hurriedly set fire to the aunt's food, fearing that his aunt was tired, and her uncle was rushing to wash the dishes after dinner.
The uncle's "warm" aunt made their feelings unrelenting. Every time regardless of their quarrel, the aunt always listened silently and never argued. Because she knows in her heart that the uncle is "knife mouth, bean curd heart", he is better than anyone else.
Therefore, uncle aunt has never really been red-faced for decades, and their feelings have become more profound with the passage of time.
A good marriage is such that a man softens a woman with his “warm”, and the woman is more tolerant and patient, and the temperature of her feelings naturally rises.
However, in reality, husbands and wives, like uncles and aunts, are few and more men selfish and always give priority to themselves.
When Lili and Siming were newly married, Siming occasionally helped Lili share some housework. However, for a long time, his true face was fully exposed.
I remember once that Lili had a fever, so she didn't cook as usual. She was lying in bed and she was going to sleep for a while. Without thinking, this sleep to sleep until Siming came home from work.
In the face of this special situation, Lili thought that she would care about her. If you don't know how to cook, you can cook some food by yourself. Unexpectedly, Siming covered her face with a word and asked why she did not cook. I do not know if he would be hungry after coming home from work?
Faced with the questioning of Siming's face, Lili completely stayed. She could not think that the pillow people who had been sleeping all around themselves were so selfish and only thought of themselves, but they never cared about themselves.
Lili was unable to quarrel with Siming. She explained that she had a fever before cooking. Did not think Siming not only did not understand, but also cold arguing, you are the most noble.
At that moment, Lili's heart was only cold. Later, Lili tried to talk to Siming. However, Siming is still a self-centered appearance. Lili had to give up, and her marriage with Siming fell to freezing point.
In such a marriage that he did not care about and did not care for, Lili could live a happy life. Her body was completely without the softness of a woman, and her whole body had a breath of impatience and depression.
This unfortunate marriage is undoubtedly a lifetime disaster for women. If Siming can "soften" a bit and care and love Lili, then their marriage will definitely look like another.
After all, the warmer a man is, the softer a woman is.
There are a couple of envy in the entertainment circle, that is, Sun Li and Huang Lei. Sun Li and Huang Lei have been in love for more than two decades now, but they have had almost no real conflicts and noisy lives.
In the past twenty years, they have been walking all the way and enjoying the care and companionship of each other on the road. As each one's corners and corners are immersed in time, they gradually become smooth and soft.
Huang Lei said, “Women such as my wife are actually not rare and should be universal. But in my mind, this is only one of them.
In today's increasingly successful Huang Lei, his wife will not be able to cook without cooking, or even education, but Huang Lei embraced her one by one.
Huang Lei said that marriage is a technical activity. “A man must be a big man in his thoughts or career, and be gentle and tolerant in other aspects, and be a little man.”
Huang Lei said that he has made Sun Li Chong the most admired woman. It is also the warmth of Huang Lei that allows Sun Li to maintain a simple and happy appearance.
Yes, the "warmness" of a man is a woman's lifetime reward.
In marriage, men often play a leading role. Men with "warm" characteristics will surely be softened as gentle as water, and natural marriage will be happy.
On the other hand, if a man considers himself only, he never considerately treats the woman tenderly, and the woman is not nourished by love, and naturally there is no “soft” character.
Therefore, there is no woman who is not soft in this world, but only a man who is not “warm”.