A smart woman, even if her life gives her a bad hand, she will use her wisdom and optimism to recombine it and rewrite it into a remarkably happy one.
Xiao, is such a beautiful and intelligent woman.
Not seen for many years, but almost no trace of her life. The glossy and delicate face is still smiling like a spring breeze. Clear eyes, bright eyes. If she were not holding a daughter with her head taller than her, many people would never believe that she was already a 40-year-old mother.
Qi Liu's bangs, black shawls, elegant but not luxurious earrings. No matter how you look at it, it is not what the middle-aged woman's life will be sloppy. "Why at the same age, you are so young, but am I so old?" The half-joking and joke of the friends who gathered together were half admired.
I admired her youthful beauty, but she was more impressed by something on her body.
She has always been a hard working woman. It is also a person who is considerate, gentle, and knowledgeable. For so many years, these traits have remained so intact, and they have emerged naturally and unconsciously from her eyes and smiles. Just look at her face with a sly laugh, you will think she must be the darling of fate, worry-free, the world is well.
Where can I be so lucky? The years are a knife for everyone. The wise man polished it into a cutting knife and carved out the broken and flawed parts of his life, leaving only the good. Some people, however, listened to their lives or complained, making it a terrible killing knife. This cold knife, of course, will not only gradually make your face look older and embarrassed, but also make your heart pure and full of arrogance.
Shaw did not go into the usual complications of middle-aged women.
Women are inferior to dogs in middle age. Most women of the same age had to be sad and had to admit that they had become fatty and they were unable to change themselves and change their lives.
The pressure of the children to go to school, the husband’s dilemma of indulging in the game of wine tables, the hard work of the elderly to take care of sickness, and the tedious and complicated affairs have long made most women who entered the middle-aged women’s sequence uneasy and disordered.
A colleague once transmitted such a text in the micro-channel:
A terrible and sad middle-aged woman like: "The daughter-in-law" who grabs the square-dance dance site, "The Lady" who sweeps the goods abroad, is a "living woman" who is a bit of a chicken-snaughter and snarls on the street, and snarls her husband's children. "Just women", most middle-aged women are full of fatigue and disappointment. Every day, the lives of the hustle and bustle are bound forward, lost their direction, and no more.
I saw it, a bit embarrassed, more speechless.
"I was not entering the menopause in advance!" When a friend of nearly 30 years walked with me one day, he raised a long, sleepless, puffy eye and asked me. When she was driving BMW, she was still unhappy. As soon as she talked about naughty children, she had already expressed irrepressible tension and worry.
There is also a friend. When she originally went to work, her work was also highly praised. But one time later, after listening to others, her body and emotions deteriorated after being transferred to another workplace. Husband constantly promoted, son health and lively, comfortable work environment and good treatment, this is how many people dream of life! There is a car in the room and life is excellent. It is a happy woman who has entered the middle class in advance. However, she is fainted again and again for no reason. The doctor's diagnosis is: too much pressure, nervous.
Money is not happy, no money is not happy. The child is aware of things and the children are not content with their disposition.
When life is good, happiness seems to be getting farther and farther. Many people feel that their lives are the worst and they are the most unfortunate. Mortgage, promotion, education, and old-age care seem to never allow one to breathe. One thing hasn't been worked out, and another trouble comes one after another.
In the middle of the night, the mother of her baby, the state of collapse was horrible. Regardless of the child’s frightened “I’m afraid” or the woman who decided to jump with her children together, it’s incredibly crazy. To force her husband to nowhere and finally go to the dead woman, terrible like a demon controlled by the demon.
From a remote perspective, from the remote countryside to the bustling cities, from the white-collar beauty to the family women, the frightening tragedies of countless people reflect the real life status of middle-aged women who have been suppressed by hysterics.
Wang Xiaobo said that middle-aged women are a disaster. It seems appropriate. There was always a raging, irritating temper, and a bit of triviality on the chatter and resentment. Suffering from depression, it is true that many middle-aged women's lives are in an embarrassing situation.
Shaw also suffered from these difficulties, but she, with her own hands, managed to solve these problems with her own wisdom. If you do not have enough academic qualifications, you should take a little rest and use other people's leisure time to fill the gaps in knowledge. With shallow qualifications, take the initiative to take on the burden and let yourself learn to grow in the hone. If the child is childish, you may wish to lower your body and experience the fun of growing up with him. Lovers are silent, then appreciate his focus on doing things.
Year after year, the years are changing, and people are changing. From a remote and anonymous village teacher, it became a teacher who was scrambled by students and parents in an experimental school in the county seat. With a dedicated studio, there are outstanding students in the session, affectionate lovers, and sensible children. Businesses and families all go hand in hand, and the so-called beauty is all about flowers, and they make money to support their families. Such a woman, of course, will not resemble a woman who has lived a bitter feud.
In fact, from a frumpy girl to a female elite in the workplace, from a girl next door to an elegant mistress, Shaw’s gorgeous counterattack has few intriguing stories and ups and downs. She merely penetrated her own words and deeds into these beautiful but ordinary qualities of tenderness, tenacity, earnestness, and tolerance, and she persisted for a long time. This is just such a simple truth, but there are few involved. And this is an important watershed that leads to ordinary and excellence, failure and success. Those souls that have become increasingly boring, lived and humbled, have also had vibrant youth, passion and enthusiasm, and have once been warmhearted people who would generally retreat, but with life's grind. The pressure is increasingly negative, degenerate, blind, and desperate. It neither knows how to cover its edges, nor does it use wisdom. It is necessary to confront each other with life and people and harm each other. In the end, his life has become even more hopeless. He was injured and involved others.
Originally, life has always been fair. People who always think that their lives have abused themselves are only trying to find a justification for their willfulness and arrogance. They, envy the achievements and glory of others, but they have shielded every heavy price paid behind these happiness.
Just like Tolstoy's saying: Happy families are all similar, and unfortunate families have their own tragedies. Sun Yi, who is worth more than 100 million yuan, is still busy with taking care of young children. Liu Tao, who was just inside and soft inside, was also trapped by a huge debt. The Luyu, who can speak and talk, has also encountered the excitement of her ex-boyfriend. Their world is also a mess. But when they cried and hated it, they used their feeble shoulders to silently provoke the burden of life, and used thin feet to step out of the thorns and lay a path of blood and tears. Finally, finally lived out of the shiny one.
Audrey Hepburn is recognized as the most beautiful and elegant woman in the world. In fact, she had many misfortunes and imperfections in her life. The poor childhood made her body not develop well. Stumbled feelings also made her marriage always less satisfying. Long-term high-load work has caused her body to be seriously damaged. However, no matter from which lens we see, we see a vivid and delicate face and a pair of clear water eyes. Her smile is always so simple and cheerful. Her kindness always warms the four parties.
They are all smart women. They are as elegant as a poem and a picture. In ordinary life, they also excel in excellence and extraordinaryness.
They also told us in the most silent language: All happiness is impossible to obtain without any gain. Instead of complaining, it is better to laugh harder.
From their stories, it also shows that the best condition of a woman is: There are stories in her eyes, but no wind and frost on her face. She wears a light makeup every day, puts on favorite clothes, does not envy her, does not laugh at anyone, nor Depending on who, only quietly work hard to live up to their most desired appearance.
"Baby, pay respect to the father who cares for you." In the whispered whisper, Shaw's proposal allows us to once again see her wisdom and understanding. Also let us have to secretly admire. I think that such a woman, even if her life is harder, she will certainly not live badly. And her wisdom is not only to make herself better, but also to make her people better. Therefore, Shaw and thousands of similar Shaw, their achievements and luck must be inevitable, as explained in Lin Qingxuan's poem: If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.
"Of course I don't try to pick the moon. I want the moon to run toward me." Hepburn could have the pride of pride, live out his own strength, and trust you, too.