Rong Yan: Good words, bad words, harsh words, can be heard. To listen to opinions and suggestions in an open-minded manner is grace and magnanimity. Let people finish what they are saying. It is generous and humility. It is strong and not sharp but also powerful. You must have courage to speak with words, and you must not be arrogant if you have no courage; you must be patient with your words. Without patience, you cannot hear the truth. Ren Yan is not a non-discriminatory person, regardless of whether it is good or bad.
Learn to respect other people The wise men smile, the fools frosty wise men remember the names of others, the fools hope the names are remembered The wise know the thoughts of others, the fools express their needs The wise are good at listening, the fools have no patience Do not make meaningless arguments The wise agrees The fools first rejected the wise man and allowed others to gradually say "yes". Fools would cause more controversy. The wise man is smart and humorous.
Apple: If a bunch of apples are good or bad, you should eat them first and throw them away. If you eat bad first, good will worsen, and you will never eat well. Also so. Happiness: If you don't always wonder if you are happy, you will be happy. Wrong: Everyone will have a fault, but only when these mistakes are repeated, you make mistakes.
A person who does not brainstorm is an ill-advised person. It is difficult to do anything. It is a person who is not good at listening to his friends. He is a self-employed person, and after all, he cannot accomplish anything. If everything is heard by others, Opinions, those who have no one’s own opinions, are equally unlikely to make a difference. Practical experience proves that the conclusion is: to listen to the opinions of the majority, and a few people
What is life? A very profound and philosophical question. Every day in our lives is beautiful, and every scenery deserves our appreciation. To appreciate life, you need a peaceful mind, you need elegant and clear, you need a relaxed pleasure, you need a happy mood. Appreciating life requires a kind of magnanimity, requires a kind of calmness, and is not disturbed by foreign objects.
There is a method of raising the mind to let go of it, a good artist to leave it blank, and a good player to leave it empty. When will you get down, when will you get a relaxed. To lay down and to be free is the highest level of the Zen family. There is a method of life called giving up. The only way to obtain happiness is to cherish what you have and give up what you cannot have. It is important not to regret after giving up. There is a method called placement, placement is not
Simplicity is a kind of realm. It is an ordinary and not entirely similar to the ordinary life attitude. A simple life is a plain but elegant landscape. A touch of white water is like the meaning of life. Simple thoughts do not have many extra desires, unlike the drunken emotions of the seasons in the wind, but they are always easy to walk into those desires.
On the road of life, we are running, for the family's happiness, for the cause of success, for the sweetness of life, for the health of the elderly, for the heart of the romantic… We are always catching up with some people, but also always be some people Beyond. I have also been running on the road of my life, although sometimes I will stop to appreciate the beautiful scenery and my understanding of life.
I once asked a highly-educated Master: "Why does a good person like me still often feel pain, but those wicked people live well?" Master looked at me with mercy and said: "If a person There is pain in the heart, which shows that this person’s heart must have evil existence corresponding to this pain. If a person’s heart is no longer evil, then this
Buddha shrine: Xiaoshou is so small that she has a large house. She is reluctant to go home. Holding hands, nothing is there; open your hands and the world is in your hands! From small to large, the education we receive is how to work hard, how to persist, and how to never give up. In fact, many times, we need to learn how to give up. The creek abandoned its flatness in order to return to the sea; yellow leaves abandoned the tree
The group kept their mouths and kept their hearts alone. It actually teaches people how to live their lives. The group kept his mouth shut. When dealing with others, pay attention to your own language. To get along with others and to boast about it seems to be open-minded, knowledgeable, and well-preserved.
Only once is life. Being alive is strong. Alive is happiness. When you live, you must live well! To live well is to cherish each and every time with your loved ones, with every moment of your family, and every time you meet with your friends. To live well is to cherish a blood-loving relationship, a friendly friendship, and an unyielding friend. Love is alive; cherish every temperature
(a) You will not have that beautiful encounter unless you can stand the waiting alone before. You will not have that bright morning, unless before you sleep can withstand the dark fog. You won't win anything unless you dare to cast a bet. The bet, the life bet, is your step. However, you will not find the road unless you dare to get lost. Because only
The road of life is long, we have worked hard, we have lost, we laughed, we cried, we were so excited that we were sad. Experience your own life and note what we have been searching for. What does our life get? What are you losing? Living in this turbulent world, faced with intense work, faced with delicate relationships, we were tired
Tranquility is a kind of temperament and a kind of self-cultivation. It is also a kind of beautiful realm. Peaceful and peaceful, like a giddy, reflecting the bright moon. Tranquility is not plain and more than mediocrity. It is a far-sight full of connotations. It touches the scene in Jing, and “listens to the thunder at a silent place”. Static health, static enlightenment, static energy and wisdom, static energy Mingdao … … to think big wisdom, great insight, must be quiet
You love yourself very much, but you don't seem to love yourself. When you eat, you always forget; when you go to bed, you always keep a diary. When you go out in the rain, you are too lazy to bring an umbrella; when the cold wind strikes, you are too lazy to add a coat. The doctor said that smoking, alcohol, and coffee are not good for you, but you regularly replenish Nigou
Everyone's life will have something unsatisfactory, and the impact of these unsatisfactory events will be different for everyone. Some people may feel unhappy because of these unsatisfactory things, and some people will find joy in it! Life is not as good as it is, and your superiors scold you for no reason at all. The neighbours have no brains to beat you. The wife piqued back to her mother’s house.
Deal with the situation first, and then deal with things – to learn to do better communication Sometimes when we communicate, we will unconsciously use some of the "negative", "command", or "upside down" way of speaking, for example: " You're wrong. You're wrong. You can't say that." Or "Oh, how many times have you told you? You can't do this! Why are you so stupid, telling you you don't listen…"
Silence is a kind of realm. It is a calmness and calmness that is invariably shocking and stable. It is a kind of fearless peace and self-confidence. In the big world, after all, there is a place that belongs to you, no one Can replace your specific life position. Leave a silence for yourself, even if someone is saying bad things about you, you don’t have to go back to hysterical hysterics, for a pure mind.
One young person who graduated from college soon after Xiao Xiaohai worked as a salesman in a foreign trade company in Shenzhen. How did he describe his desperation? In his living room, instant noodles bags are everywhere. He said that in addition to entertainment, either eat fast food or eat instant noodles. Because every day the factory runs the factory and negotiates with the merchants, the time is calculated in cents. He also opened a wholesale shop in his hometown and needs to be restocked every week.